New York State Funeral Directors Association

In loving memory etched in stone

If you live close to the cemetery where your loved one is buried, it should be fairly easy to stop by and pay your respects.

But for those who live hundreds of miles away – and those with roadblocks to mobility such as a disability or inability to travel – simply seeing their loved one’s grave site can be a real gift.

With the help of an online project, anyone who visits a cemetery can help those who can’t by simply taking a photograph.

It’s not uncommon for people to attend funerals for friends and family who don’t share the same religious beliefs – or who don’t have any religion at all.

What if the deceased is religious, but you don’t know how to pray for them?

You can still make sure prayers that individual would appreciate will be voiced.

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New York's Capital Region honors, re-buries Colonial-era slaves. Found by accident in an unmarked cemetery, scientists pinpointed their African origin and the community held a wake and funeral.

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