New York State Funeral Directors Association

When we first heard about the shootings at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, CT, most of us experienced overwhelming feelings of shock, disbelief and sadness very much like our reaction to the horror of 9/11.

These feelings of grief can be just as intense as when we lose a loved one who is close to us.

Video: Slaves No More

New York's Capital Region honors, re-buries Colonial-era slaves. Found by accident in an unmarked cemetery, scientists pinpointed their African origin and the community held a wake and funeral.

Video: Family History

Today, resources are becoming more widely available, giving people the ability to learn exciting stories about their ancestors. Find 14 great tips on the Blog.


SympathyNotes is written to stimulate discussion of death and grief. Opinions do not reflect the views of NYSFDA.

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