New York State Funeral Directors Association

I never really understood how important a holiday candle-lighting event at a funeral home might be until recently. Now, I think I get it. 

My wife’s mom died recently and unexpectedly. It was the day before her birthday, a week before Thanksgiving and a month before Christmas.

These are holidays that my wife has never spent without her mother. They’re holidays I’ve spent with the two for the past 18 years straight. Now, they’re holidays I want to cancel altogether.

Parents enduring the anguish of miscarriage and stillbirth are finding support in Upstate New York from an effort to transform used wedding gowns and formal dresses into burial clothing for infants.

Video: Slaves No More

New York's Capital Region honors, re-buries Colonial-era slaves. Found by accident in an unmarked cemetery, scientists pinpointed their African origin and the community held a wake and funeral.

Video: Family History

Today, resources are becoming more widely available, giving people the ability to learn exciting stories about their ancestors. Find 14 great tips on the Blog.

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